You will remain stuck...

You keep denying that ONE part of you…

You can read the books, create a beautiful website, make pretty social media graphics, have that photo-shoot…

But if you’re not 100000% on-board with ALL of who you are - every nook-n-cranny of yourself - none of it will matter. None of it will move your forward or get you to the place you desire to be. Not in a magical, meaningful and quantum-leapy way, anyway!

Because people won’t actually be seeing/reading/receiving YOU in your entirety. They’ll be getting a washed-out, watered-down, abridged version. And who wants that?!

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And I know… you’re probably rolling your eyes all like, “Uh, just *how* do I even know what I’m hiding and how do I begin to SHOW it?!”

Well, m’lady, lemme tell you: It’s about knowing and EMBRACING the shit out of your TWO ELEMENTS.

Yes, I’m talking AIR, WATER, FIRE, EARTH, SPACE.

See, everyone leads with TWO of the ELEMENTS to create the unique visual imprint of their ESSENCE.

However, it can often feel dangerous to OWN them both, so we tend to default to the one that feels safest. When that happens, it’s like keeping part of yourself packed away up in the energetic attic. And it can leave you feeling like something is missing or off...but you can’t quite put your finger on what that might be.

Do you ever feel like that?

Like one client has a HUGE vision and DREAM, but has been defaulting to her EARTH by making grounded, risk-free decisions in order to keep herself stable and supported.

And that’s good, we want stability and support! Here’s the thang though: that VISION and DREAM need to be fueled by the FIRE that she has been ignoring.

Why? Because it feels dangerous and sexy and mysterious!!! But it’s that exact FIRE that, if given its rightful place, will provide the PASSION + DRIVE necessary to get her ideas out of her noggin and into the world!! It will propel her into the spotlight of her life!!

You feel me?! And it’s that *same* FIRE that will IGNITE her magnetism by working in harmony with her EARTH to create delicious outfits that amplify her energy and send her ESSENCE into the world like the most deliciously intoxicating bat signal ever.

This is ICONIC shit I’m talkin’ about here.

What parts of yourself have you been shutting of, dimming down, folding, DENYING?!

Can you imagine how much easier, fun and passion-fueled your life would be if you just stopped resisting the parts of yourself that scare you most?! #magic

Time to let your ICON come out and rule your world!!

If this is speaking to you, send me a hit reply so we can chat! I’d lololove to create a bespoke experience for you if we’re a perfect match!!! <3

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

Air kisses,



3 Ways To DISRUPT Your Samey-Same Style (and finally start showing up as the UNIQUE ICON you are!)

  1. Take all of your default outfits and clothing (the stuff you mindlessly wear over and over again) and put them in a box outside of your room. Make them off limits to force yourself to play with other pieces you’ve been neglecting.

  2. Choose a theme for the day and dress according to it...then GO OUT and notice how the world responds to you. Gothy Biz Babe Monday, Fierce CEO Tuesday, Mardi Gras Wednesday… anything goes! Just PLAY FFS!

  3. Dress as if you were going to an event where ALL EYES will be on YOU!!! Hair, makeup, kick-ass look. And carry on with your normal day that way.

Which feels scariest to you? Most fun?

*Image from Pinterest

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are\

Air kisses,


P.S. Did you know that Be The ICON, a LIVE group experience, is happening this October in a mystery chateau in the south of France? There are just 4 spots one yours?! If you’re really ready to experience a HUGE transformation from the inside-out that you’ll take home with you, hop on ovah here to complete the application - <3


What are you telling yourself with how you dress???


There are MANY ways you can keep the “I AM NOT WORHTY” story going… How you choose to dress is one of them!

If you -

Wear only whatever’s handy, even if it’s worn out, ripped, stretched and frumpy, you’re dressing in unworthiness.

Put together AMAZING outfits and get a shit-ton of compliments...and don’t feel like yourself when you look in the mirror, you’re dressing unworthiness.


Only buy and wear things you got on sale, even if you don’t actually love them, you’re dressing in unworthiness.

Use clothes to hide or camouflage parts of your body, you’re dressing in unworthiness.

Wear things you think your partner, parents, friends, colleagues, family, etc. will approve of, even if you feel like you’d choose something totally different if you knew they wouldn’t comment or judge, you’re dressing in unworthiness.

Are you getting this? How are YOU using your clothes to tell yourself you’re unworthy?

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

Air kisses,


P.S. Come play elevated dress-up with us in France!!! 5 days, a circle of badass women, medieval chateau, mega transformation, ICONIC. PM me for deets!!

ICON Secrets you must know...

3 Style Secrets Every ICON Must Know...

  1. Give everything you put on your BEing glittering love + intention. #sacredadornment

  2. Cease to give a FOOK about what anyone could, does, will or might think. #youaretheexpertonyou

  3. Break every. Single. Rule. #theonlyruleistherearenorules

Which one is a HELL YEAH for you?!

*Image from Pinterest

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are\

Air kisses,


P.S. Ok, so if you don’t feel FUCKING SPECTACULAR in what you wear and CONFIDENT LIKE A MOFO in how you’re moving through our world, then it’s time we talk. Your time is now. Stop waiting. No more dilly-dallying. This IS a priority and it informs every area of your life! You’re ICONIC and you deserve to LIVE ICONIC! PM me and let’s see what the best experience for you is! <3

What I LOVED about my beach vacay

Wanna know what I kinda love most about being at the beach...

Ok, so besides having a kick-in-the-pants time with my Tiny Dancer + dude and doing stuff like this sunset boat ride we did last night, of course, here’s what I enjoyed MOST about the 10 days of beach fun we just wrapped up -

Seeing how people show up and move outside of their normal context, when they're sort of "anonymous"...

You know what I mean?

🌊 ☀️Like how adults will pee their paints laughing as they unsuccessfully attempt to climb on a giant-ass inflatable flamingo...and fall in the water over and over again.

👗👩‍🎤Like how women + men get all gussied up with sparkles and heels to go out for an evening stroll, and ooze confidence and effortlessness.

👣👙How wherever you look, people are strutting around in bathing suits and enjoying the shite out of themselves without trying to hide or camouflage their perceived imperfections because being in zee moment totally trumps all that malarkey.

🕶️👸🏽How the beach is lined with topless women who non-chalently go about their business, play with their kids, take a dip, and don't give it a second thought.

👑💃🏽How people are saying yes to themselves when they see things that dazzle and speak to them at the stands that line the boardwalk, and eating out, dancing to music, etc.

🏄‍♀️🚣‍♀️How there are boat rides and jet ski adventures and parasailing and Segway-ing and mini golf and racket ball in the sand and arcades, and grown-ups and kids are participating.

So much play. So much freedom. So much YES. So many glimpses into what it's like to BE ICONIC!!!! And so different than the energy I see and feel in my day-to-day life...

🔮🔮🔮I'm convinced that there is ooodles of healing and transformation that gets to slip in, drop in when we're just having FUN!!!! Because our guard is down, we are open!!!

Can you imagine 5 days of feeling like you're walking on fucking GLITTER like this?!?! Beyond any vacation you've ever had?!


In dream-like surroundings, being catered to, having laugh attacks and partaking in mega silliness and glamor and play?!?!With a hearty side of mystery, sacred ceremony and frequency recalibration?!

And coming out of it a totally different person?!

And taking it all back home with you to continue BEing The ICON there, and in *any* context?!

There are still a few spots open for the Be The ICON: An Electric Ascension group experience happening in a mystery chateau in the South of France.

What you'll experience with your ICONIC sisters + me is not something you'll find anywhere else because what I teach and how I teach it is truly unique to me, dahling!! 😃🙌🏻

Hit reply for deets and secure your coveted spot!!!

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

Air kisses,