Your ICONIC Style

Say it with me, “EFF THE RULES!”

Are you still getting tangled up in pesky-ass rules??

ICON!

What rules are you following that are keeping you from PLAYING and EXPLORING and HAVING FUN with your clothes?!

Was it that one thing your grandmother taught you?

Or that list you read in a fashion magazine when you were a teenager?

Or that thing that one boy in college told you that made you totally stop wearing certain things?

(These are all true sources for some of the inspiration-deflating rules I used to follow!!)

When we’re busy following rules about something as inherently CREATIVE and ARTISTIC as style… something that is about SELF-EXPRESSION and your ESSENCE…

It totally forces us to push against our own nature (aka, your Style.Essence)! Ya dig?

If you’re attracted to a certain style of clothing over and over again but have learned/understood that it’s off limits for you, then you’re essentially depriving yourself of something that is in alignment with who you are!!

And that shit is bananas, right?!

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Enter Pillar 4 of The 7 Pillars to Being ICONIC To The Core: I HAVE NO RULES!

When we release our attachment to rules in any area of our lives - including how we show up and dress - it allows us to lower the blinders and see things from a tooootally new and fresh perspective!!

This means more possibilities, more alignment, more high vibes and more BEING OPEN to magic you can’t even fathom! YAY!!!!

BEing ICONIC and how you dress and show up is about *way* more than just looking good. It’s about having the mindset + energetic foundation necessary to truly take yourself to the next level.

The actual transformation I support my clients with happens via The 7 Pillars, which then creates the outward stylish and MAGNETIC AF result!! BOOM!

So today, m’lady, I’d LOVE to hear about some of the rules you’ve been following (you may not have even been aware of them until now!) when it comes to how you dress.

Are you ready to start breaking them, STAT?! :D

Quick Tip - The next time you go to get dressed, as yourself, “What would I wear today if this were Day 1 of my life, and I had no rules or limiting beliefs around what I should or shouldn’t wear?!”

See what style magic you come up with!

Air kisses,

Eyenie.
www.technicolorpriestess.com/iconic-to-the-core/

P.S. Want to know more about what it means to show up like the ICON you are?! Join us in my spankin’ new Facebook group, Dress To Manifest!!!

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore

Do you actually know yourself?

Are your desires and tastes like a mixed-up, undefinable blur?

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How well do you know yourself?!

At one point in the beginning stages of my mega full-throttle self-realization adventure I had a HUGE revelation: I didn’t really know myself. I was like an effing enigma wrapped in a riddle…

Of course, I had an idea of how I wanted things to “feel” generally, but I was totally unclear of specifics, focus, direction.

This was the case with how I wanted my life to look, where I wanted to live, what my actual passions were, what my authentic personal style was, how I desired to spend my free time, what my BIG dreams were…

After years of focusing on my “duties” and what I thought I “should” have/be/do, it was clear that I had never made any room to connect with Eyenie and find out what her true ESSENCE was.

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This simple act of spending time with myself and asking questions, being curious, playing, exploring - with everything, including my clothes - TOTALLY changed my existence!!!

That’s why this has become Pillar 3 of The 7 Pillars to Being ICONIC To The Core, and a major part of the work I do with my clients, from the inside-out.

BEing ICONIC and how you dress and show up is about *way* more than just looking good. It’s about having the mindset + energetic foundation necessary to truly take yourself to the next level.

The actual transformation I support my clients with happens via The 7 Pillars, which then creates the outward stylish and MAGNETIC AF result!! BOOM!

So, I’d love to ask you, how well do you actually know yourself, m’lady?

Do you actually know what you LOVE?

What makes you feel giddy and excited?

What textures and colors and patterns feel like YOU?

What you desire to express visually and energetically through what you wear?!

Quick Tip - One easy peasy thing you can do *today* to begin connecting with yourself and getting to know what you love as far as style goes is doing a Pinterest board! Type in random words that come to you and start pinning!! After 15 minutes, take a look at the entire board and you’ll start noticing some common themes…

Air kisses,

Eyenie.
www.technicolorpriestess.com/iconic-to-the-core/

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are


#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore #dresstomanifest

Time To Declare I AM ENOUGH

How would you dress + show up if you finally deemed yourself to be ENOUGH?!

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Seriously! What if you stopped hiding and trying to camouflage shit or covering parts of yourself up or dimming other parts of you down?!

What if you stopped punishing yourself in those small (seemingly) harmless ways on the daily...like not buying yourself that cool-ass shirt because you’re not at your “ideal weight”, or not moisturizing your face because “there’s no time for that”?

Or not carving out 5 minutes for yourself in the morning to put on an outfit you actually dig and that makes you feel powerful and confident because “there are other priorities”?

See the message you’re sending yourself (those around you and Universe)?!

You’re essentially saying you’re not worthy of your own time, care, and attention. And then those micro actions and decisions and thoughts support that until it becomes a belief.

BEing ICONIC and how you dress and show up is about *way* more than just looking good. It’s about having the mindset + energetic foundation necessary to truly take yourself to the next level.

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There are actually several layers and phases to BEcoming our most ICONIC selves - I call them The 7 Pillars to Being ICONIC To The Core - and when women come to me, I know that the actual transformation for them comes through going through The Pillars, which then creates the outward stylish AF result!! BOOM!

Last week I told you about Pillar I, which is: I choose how I feel.

Today I want to talk about Pillar 2, which is: I am enough.

Can you please just repeat that a few times?!

I AM ENOUGH.

I AM ENOUGH.

I AM ENOUGH.

 Today, as I am in this very moment, in this exact body, whatever size or shape it is. In this very context, whether I’ve achieved many or few of my goals. In every and any circumstance ever.

BOOM! Now that’s some #nextlevelshit right there!!!

Here’s to accepting that you are not only enough, but also ICONIC now, m’lady. <3

Air kisses,

Eyenie.
www.technicolorpriestess.com

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore

YOU choose how you feel…

Are you owning the SHIT out of the experience you create for yourself each and every day? Or have you given that power over to someone else?!

 ICON!

 Did you know that personal style and showing up like the ICON you are is actually *more* of an inside job than an outside one?!

No, seriously!

Why? Because how we show up on the outside and the energy we exude is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves, what we think is possible for us, our confidence level, etc. As within, so without.

(If you’re scoffing and thinking this is about high heels and lipstick, it is not :) It’s about whatever is right and aligned for YOU, m’lady.)

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There are actually several layers and phases to BEcoming our most ICONIC selves - I call them The 7 Pillars to Being ICONIC To The Core - and when women come to me, I know that the actual transformation for them comes through going through The Pillars, which then creates the outward stylish AF result!! BOOM!

Par example, Pillar I is: I choose how I feel.

Are *you* choosing how you feel? Through the clothes you wear, how you show up, the thoughts you are having about yourself and your life, what your focus is, etc?

Or are you allowing external circumstances and other people to determine that for you, lovely?!

Everything is connected, so if you’re dressing based on how others may or may not feel, or you’re dimming yourself down and judging yourself...you’re likely choosing to feel heavy, yuck and meh. See how this works?

So, today I ask, how do YOU choose to feel today?! And how you gonna dress to support that?!

Air kisses,

Eyenie.
www.technicolorpriestess.com

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore

Has THIS been holding you back from your ICONIC style?

If you’re trying to “play it safe” with how you’re dressing + showing up, it can actually be mega detrimental to your biz, m’lady…

ICON!

Here are 3 Ways Playing It Safe & Trying To Fit In With Your Style Is Holding You Back:

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1.) The red sneaker effect. There was actually a study done for the Journal of Consumer Research by Francesca Gino that shows, "people who stand out from the crowd are actually seen as having higher “status” than others.  And the study found repeatedly that such atypical clothing or behavior actually made others think more of the person, not less... college students were more likely to think a professor at a top-tier university described as wearing a T-shirt and sporting a beard was better respected by his students than a clean-shaven professor wearing a tie. People see such individuals, Gino says, as "having the guts to do what they're doing. They're such a high-status person that they don’t need to conform to the rules."

Moral: When you own the SHIT out of your quirks, eccentricities, avant-garde and unconventional ways, it actually makes you exude an energy of MORE authority, power and expertise.

2.) Other women and men who DO NOT fit in NEED YOU! They need to see that someone like YOU is an expert and owning their individuality while kicking ass, achieving success, being taken seriously and earning major moolah! Also, it's just smart for business! The more clearly your ideal peeps can see who you actually truly are, the more effortlessly they’ll find you and know you can help them improve their lives.

3.) When you don't dress in a way that's energetically aligned, you send mixed signals. To the Universe (about what you want, what you're willing to do, how authentic you're willing to be, what you're ready to receive, etc.), to potential clients and patrons who, whether you believe so or not, can feel at a cellular level that something is off and that you're not quite being authentic. Oh, and they'll definitely sense the frustration you feel as you try to edit, censor and fold yourself and how it conflicts with your message.

Here’s to GOING FOR IT and getting your ICONIC on, no-holds-barred! <3

Air kisses,

Eyenie.
www.technicolorpriestess.com

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore