You Choose How You Feel

Dress to support your CHAKRAS

Did you know you can use what you WEAR to support your energy, raise your vibe and help you create balance in your day?! True story, yo!


There are many ways to do this, and one of the easy peasiest is to dress according to which of your chakras you want to support. You can add any of these colors to your ensemble and feel the benefits, presto change-o!

Par example -

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Feeling unsafe and vulnerable today? Wear some RED shoes to support your Root Chakra.

Require an extra confidence boost to rock the shit outta your next speaking gig? Wear some earrings with an ORANGE stone or gem to support your Solar Plexus.

Wanna get your creative juices flowing like nobody’s business while you paint or write your next book? Wear a YELLOW scarf to support your Sacral Chakra.

Ready to receive some love from yourself, others and the Universe? Wear a necklace with a GREEN pendant to support your Heart Chakra.

Need to speak clearly, truthfully and express yourself fully during an interview? Wear a BLUE blazer to support your Throat Chakra.

Yearning to awaken your intuition for an important meeting with someone? Wear an INDIGO dress to support your Third Eye Chakra.

Desire to connect more with the Universe and be in Divine Flow? Wear a PURPLE handbag or bracelet to support your Crown Chakra.

Which of these chakras would you like to support and nurture most this week with what you wear, m’lady?!

Air kisses,


//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore

STOP Dressing For Others

*The* best way to achieve ICONIC style? Dress for YOURSELF!


5 SIGNS YOU’RE DRESSING FOR OTHERS (and what to do instead)

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1.) When you’re getting dressed to go somewhere, you think about who is going to be there and adjust your clothes to “match” their vibe and their taste.

Instead: Dress for YOURSELF! Feel into what YOU love, what makes you feel how you want to feel and OWN IT.

2.) You buy stuff you love but end up leaving it in your closet with the tags on and end up wearing the same stuff everyone has seen you in a million times instead.

Instead: Rip off the tags, lean into the fear and wear the eff out of it! Play, experiment, integrate it into your current wardrobe, no matter how outside your comfort zone it may be.

3.) You’re using clothes to appear a certain way or create an image or illusion.

Instead: Be authentic! Wear pieces that truly reflect who you are, where you want to go and what you stand for!

4.) You follow a strict set of rules handed down to you by your grandmother/mother/bff/husband/society, and you feel wrong when you don’t adhere to them.

Instead: FOOK the rules! Use clothes to feel how you want to feel and radiate what you want to radiate! Your new rule: there are no rules.

5.) You wear the latest trends and fashions and get compliments all the time...but feel bored and meh about your clothes. Something’s off.

Instead: Stop caring about the compliments and the approval you get, yo! Start expressing YOUR style, even if it means being less trendy and not getting approval. Authentic self-expression trumps approval any ol’ day!

Are you dressing for yourself or someone else??! Which one of these got you right in the kisser?!

Air kisses,


//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore

Instantly Elevate Your Style NOW

What’s holding YOU back from wearing what you desire?!


3 Ways To Instantly Elevate Your Personal Style

When I ask women what’s holding them back from dressing in a way that makes them feel ICONIC, the most frequent responses I get are:

Not enough money.
Not happy with body shape and/or size.
Too busy/no time for self.

Here’s the thing though (and yes, you may totally roll your eyes at me!) - the way you dress is part of your ESSENCE! And expressing that is as available as air to breathe!!

Which means that elevating your style and closing that gap between where you are now and where you desire to be is probably easier and more accessible than you might think. Because at the end of zee day, it’s all an energy and feeling game...

Here are three ways to elevate how you dress and begin visually expressing yourself more like the ICON you are, PRONTO -

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Tip 1 - Stop using clothes to hide or camouflage *perceived* wrongness or imperfections! Instead use what you wear as a way to actually showcase the eff outta what the good Universe gave you! Shifting your focus and how you approach putting outfits together is a huge game-changer.

Tip 2 - Remember the art of opposites! Also known as high-low, mix super casual or basic pieces - like a tee shirt + jeans - with statement pieces like a bold or ultra-chic bag, kick-ass fanthy shoes or delish lace or graphic tights. Yes, it’s time to pull out those things you’ve had tucked away for a special occasion and put them in your daily mix!

Tip 3 - Get rid of anything that doesn’t fit beautifully or commit to getting it tailored (or altering it yourself.) When something just falls and fits like it was made for you, you can just focus on sashaying your way through your day. Instant confidence and amazing posture! Bam!

BONUS: Use stuff you have creatively/re-purpose! Maybe that necklace becomes a wrap bracelet, or the colorful scarf turns into a belt! Perhaps that collection of old band pins creates a cool pattern on a bag you’re bored with, or you cut that old dress into a kick-ass shirt. Soooo many options!

Which of these are you excited to try?!

Air kisses,


#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore #dresstomanifest

P.S. Have you joined my new Facebook group yet?! If you want to start using your clothes to help take your life to the next level, then come on over!!!

Join the technicolor FUN here!

Use Your Clothes To Ground Your Energy!

Did you know you could use how you dress to help shift how you're feeling?!


3 Ways To Use How You Dress To Ground Your Energy!!

If you’re feeling scattered, all over the place, or like you can’t seem to get your day rockin’ and rollin’, you can use your clothes to support you!

Try one or all of these magical style tips and notice how your energy tooootally grounds-n-shifts!!

Tip 1 - Put on your most substantial pair of shoes. The more high-quality, the better. They can be kick-ass boots, chunky tennis shoes or some “I’m here!” wedges. This will help you anchor your energy into the Earth, literally.

Tip 2 - Add some weight to your look with a heavier/bigger bag and/or accessories. It doesn’t have to be anything over-the-top, just something you cannot forget is there like a blinged-out statement necklace or large-ish cuff bracelet. Having something like this in the mix brings your attention to it throughout the day, keeping you more in the present moment, which = grounding!

Tip 3 - Wear something red. Red is the color of the root chakra, which is all about feeling safe and supported in our lives. Choosing red helps to connect with those feelings, leading to more groundedness.

Bonus Tip - Add something structured to your outfit, like a blazer or a (p)leather jacket. This will create a feeling of being hugged or held, which helps you drop into your body more so you can touch zee ground.

Tah-daaah! Which of any of these resonate, m’lady?!

Air kisses,


#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore #dresstomanifest

YOU choose how you feel…

Are you owning the SHIT out of the experience you create for yourself each and every day? Or have you given that power over to someone else?!


 Did you know that personal style and showing up like the ICON you are is actually *more* of an inside job than an outside one?!

No, seriously!

Why? Because how we show up on the outside and the energy we exude is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves, what we think is possible for us, our confidence level, etc. As within, so without.

(If you’re scoffing and thinking this is about high heels and lipstick, it is not :) It’s about whatever is right and aligned for YOU, m’lady.)

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There are actually several layers and phases to BEcoming our most ICONIC selves - I call them The 7 Pillars to Being ICONIC To The Core - and when women come to me, I know that the actual transformation for them comes through going through The Pillars, which then creates the outward stylish AF result!! BOOM!

Par example, Pillar I is: I choose how I feel.

Are *you* choosing how you feel? Through the clothes you wear, how you show up, the thoughts you are having about yourself and your life, what your focus is, etc?

Or are you allowing external circumstances and other people to determine that for you, lovely?!

Everything is connected, so if you’re dressing based on how others may or may not feel, or you’re dimming yourself down and judging’re likely choosing to feel heavy, yuck and meh. See how this works?

So, today I ask, how do YOU choose to feel today?! And how you gonna dress to support that?!

Air kisses,


//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore