You Break The Rules

Say it with me, “EFF THE RULES!”

Are you still getting tangled up in pesky-ass rules??


What rules are you following that are keeping you from PLAYING and EXPLORING and HAVING FUN with your clothes?!

Was it that one thing your grandmother taught you?

Or that list you read in a fashion magazine when you were a teenager?

Or that thing that one boy in college told you that made you totally stop wearing certain things?

(These are all true sources for some of the inspiration-deflating rules I used to follow!!)

When we’re busy following rules about something as inherently CREATIVE and ARTISTIC as style… something that is about SELF-EXPRESSION and your ESSENCE…

It totally forces us to push against our own nature (aka, your Style.Essence)! Ya dig?

If you’re attracted to a certain style of clothing over and over again but have learned/understood that it’s off limits for you, then you’re essentially depriving yourself of something that is in alignment with who you are!!

And that shit is bananas, right?!

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Enter Pillar 4 of The 7 Pillars to Being ICONIC To The Core: I HAVE NO RULES!

When we release our attachment to rules in any area of our lives - including how we show up and dress - it allows us to lower the blinders and see things from a tooootally new and fresh perspective!!

This means more possibilities, more alignment, more high vibes and more BEING OPEN to magic you can’t even fathom! YAY!!!!

BEing ICONIC and how you dress and show up is about *way* more than just looking good. It’s about having the mindset + energetic foundation necessary to truly take yourself to the next level.

The actual transformation I support my clients with happens via The 7 Pillars, which then creates the outward stylish and MAGNETIC AF result!! BOOM!

So today, m’lady, I’d LOVE to hear about some of the rules you’ve been following (you may not have even been aware of them until now!) when it comes to how you dress.

Are you ready to start breaking them, STAT?! :D

Quick Tip - The next time you go to get dressed, as yourself, “What would I wear today if this were Day 1 of my life, and I had no rules or limiting beliefs around what I should or shouldn’t wear?!”

See what style magic you come up with!

Air kisses,


P.S. Want to know more about what it means to show up like the ICON you are?! Join us in my spankin’ new Facebook group, Dress To Manifest!!!

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore

I Bet You've Never Done *THIS* To Create An Outfit

Any limiting beliefs you have about yourself and what’s possible for you *will* hold you back from dressing how you desire to dress, m’lady.


Want to get your personal style closer to ICONIC in two shakes?! Ask questions! No, seriously!

How we do one thing is how we do everything, and if you have limiting beliefs that are holding you back or blocking you in one area of your life, chances are it's coming through in how you show up!

Because it's all energy, and if we can move and shift energy, we can create new possibilities. Ooooooey!

Here are some questions that I use and that I teach my clients that will help you OPEN up to the energy of your ICONIC style //

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1.) If I adhered to NO rules, how would I dress right now? What would I choose to wear?

2.) If I stopped believing that something was wrong with my body as it is in this moment, how would I dress today?

3.) What would feel AMAZING to wear right now?

4.) What do I desire to wear today to help me be in flow and complete everything I desire to complete?

5.) If I released all resistance, what would I choose to wear today? How would I show up?

6.) What am I making significant that if I stop making it significant, it would open up new possibilities for how I show up? (this is a great Access Consciousness question that I use for style!)

7.) If I truly showed myself love and allowed myself to express what I need to express today, how would I dress?

8.) Body, what do you require today? Body, what would you like to wear today? (Another Access Consciousness gem!)

9.) If I were feeling totally brave and fierce and at my most confident and powerful, what would I choose to wear today?!

10.) If I didn't give a rat's ass about what anybody - and I mean, ANYBODY - thought, what would feel WOW to wear today?

Start playing with these in your closet and watch as you start stepping into ICONIC Visionary YOU with every new outfit!

Air kisses,


//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore

Imagine being FEARLESSLY self-expressed...

Do you feel like you censor/edit/fold/restrict yourself?


I speak to and work with women every day who say how frustrating it is to not just BE who they actually ARE!!

Through how they dress
Through how they show up
Through how they speak
Through their videos and webinars
Through the energy they give off
Through what they share about themselves...

But trying to hold back and cut yourself off and restrict yourself in all these different ways creates a total pressure cooker effect that leads to...well...KA-BOOOOOOM!!!! (and not in a cool exciting way!)

This week's video is an EFT/Tapping video to help you fearlessly self-express and start BEing ICONIC now!!!

Air kisses,


//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore