This HEALED me…

Are you only showing one side of yourself?!


I am fully aware of how personal style can be seen as fluffy and superficial and is often placed waaay down on the priority list.

But you know what? For me, it’s a tool for healing and rapid growth + expansion! And it has truly contributed to my journey from total self-loathing to unconditional self-love. No joke, m’lady.

Back in the day, I used to use clothes to make myself look on the outside as invisible and unattractive as I felt on the inside. I used clothes against myself and as a sort of punishment for not being worthy or enough. I deprived myself of wearing things I loved because I didn’t think I deserved it, despite my passion for aesthetics, beauty, style and fashion.

It was gradual, but I eventually started to notice that the more I began loving myself, the more I allowed myself to experiment and play with how I dressed. The inside and outside totally worked in tandem and as I started giving myself permission to love myself more and more, I began loving what I wore more and more...And the person I always knew myself to be deep down started to come into focus.

As within, so without. As above, so below.

Remember, how you dress is a direct reflection of how you see yourself. And how worthy you deem yourself to be. No, this doesn’t mean you only love yourself if you’re draped in diamonds and designer means you care enough to just wear what you like and what feels good. It’s about being a vibrational match for who you want to be in every area of your life.

What are you wearing today, and what’s its frequency?!

//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are.

Air kisses,


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