YOU choose how you feel…

Are you owning the SHIT out of the experience you create for yourself each and every day? Or have you given that power over to someone else?!


 Did you know that personal style and showing up like the ICON you are is actually *more* of an inside job than an outside one?!

No, seriously!

Why? Because how we show up on the outside and the energy we exude is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves, what we think is possible for us, our confidence level, etc. As within, so without.

(If you’re scoffing and thinking this is about high heels and lipstick, it is not :) It’s about whatever is right and aligned for YOU, m’lady.)

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There are actually several layers and phases to BEcoming our most ICONIC selves - I call them The 7 Pillars to Being ICONIC To The Core - and when women come to me, I know that the actual transformation for them comes through going through The Pillars, which then creates the outward stylish AF result!! BOOM!

Par example, Pillar I is: I choose how I feel.

Are *you* choosing how you feel? Through the clothes you wear, how you show up, the thoughts you are having about yourself and your life, what your focus is, etc?

Or are you allowing external circumstances and other people to determine that for you, lovely?!

Everything is connected, so if you’re dressing based on how others may or may not feel, or you’re dimming yourself down and judging’re likely choosing to feel heavy, yuck and meh. See how this works?

So, today I ask, how do YOU choose to feel today?! And how you gonna dress to support that?!

Air kisses,


//You are not some glossy print… Show up like the unique work of Art you are

#elevateyourstyle #beiconictothecore